What is the Difference Between a Sociopath, a Compulsive, a Pathological, a Chronic, and a Habitual Liar? No Difference At All for Shafran! All Bunched Into One!
A Sociopath
A sociopath is typically defined as someone who lies
incessantly to get their way and does so with little concern for
others. A sociopath is often goal-oriented (i.e., lying is focused—it is
done to get one’s way). Sociopaths have little regard or respect for
the rights and feelings of others. Sociopaths are often charming and
charismatic, but they use their talented social skills in manipulative
and self-centered ways.
Compulsive Liar
A compulsive liar is defined as someone who lies out
of habit. Lying is their normal and reflexive way of responding to
questions. Compulsive liars bend the truth about everything, large and
small. For a compulsive liar, telling the truth is very awkward and
uncomfortable while lying feels right. Compulsive lying is usually
thought to develop in early childhood, due to being placed in an
environment where lying was necessary. For the most part, compulsive
liars are not overly manipulative and cunning (unlike sociopaths),
rather they simply lie out of habit—an automatic response which is hard
to break and one that takes its toll on a relationship (see how to cope with a compulsive liar).
“After decades of denial, cover ups and darkness across New York State, light is finally being shone on the scourge of child sexual abuse,” read the petition signed by scores of high-profile leaders. We are embarrassed that New York State ranks among the very worst in the US, on how the courts and criminal justice system treat survivors of child sex abuse. It is time for some religious leaders to stop playing games and get on board with the Child Victims Act,” said longtime bill advocate Mark Meyer Appel.
Gov Cuomo Silent on Markey Child Victims Act; Agudah Still Opposes Reformative Bill
The Markey Bill, sponsored by
Assemblywoman Margaret Markey (D-Queens) seeks to eliminate time limits
in criminal and civil cases of child sexual abuse.
According to published reports in the
New York Daily News, those who are not in the forefront of the movement
to reform child sex abuse laws that in their current state provides
legal protection for the adult predator and not the victim include
Governor Cuomo, Senate GOP leader John Flanagan, and Assembly Speaker
Carl Heastie.
During a recent huddle of the
legislators in Albany, such matters as the state’s heroin problem,
mayoral control of the schools and budgetary issues were discussed but
there was nary a reference to reforming the statute of limitations on
child sex abuse cases.
New York’s archaic statute of
limitations sharply limits the time victims have to bring charges
against a molester. A victim must come forward within five years after
the age of 18 to bring criminal or civil charges against their abuser or
any agency or organization that should have reported the crime.
As was reported in the Daily News, New
York City lags behind states like Georgia, Massachusetts, Florida and
Utah, all of which in the past several years have passed bills that
lengthened the time victims have to bring their cases to court.
Given the emotional and psychological
devastation that victims of child sexual abuse endure they are often
slow to come to grips with their past. Some are unable to do so until
middle age or even later in life but certainly not before the age of 23.
Furthermore, in our religious communities, by limiting the right to sue
and prosecute to the age of 23 has created a situation where victims of
abuse may have lost a chance for closure to come forward with charges
regarding the abuse suffered.
For the last decade efforts to pass the
Child Victims Act have failed four times. They had first passed the
Assembly and eventually got stymied in the state Senate. Speaking to the
Daily News, Carmen Durso, an attorney who initiated a successful
campaign to reform the laws pertaining to statute of limitations in 2012
in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts said, "I can't believe that New
York has the worst statute of limitations. That's a national shame.”
According to a 2010 National Institutes
of Health study, those championing reform have said that 80% of those
who were abused as children wait until their adult years before
discussing the matter publicly or filing charges against the abusers.
The paper reported that in Massachusetts, a victim can file criminal
charges as long as 27 years after their 16th birthday.
One of the Jewish groups that have
consistently opposed the Child Victims Act is the Agudath Israel of
America which represents haredi Orthodox schools and synagogues.
According to a JTA report, the group says the bill would open up
institutions to “ancient claims and capricious litigation,” as they had
written in a 2009 statement it issued with the haredi schools network
Torah Umesorah.
Speaking to the JTA, Agudah director of
public affairs and regular newspaper columnist Rabbi Avi Shafran
declared, “We do not oppose extending or even eliminating the criminal
statute of limitations for cases of abuse. Our concern is simply
protecting the economic viability of Jewish schools. Yeshivas operate on
shoestring budgets.”
Proponents of reform in the statute of
limitations have implied that institutions that oppose the reform
measures are doing so in order to protect the reputation of the school
or facility they represent rather than focusing on the mental and
emotional well being of the victim. They also assert that their priority
is ensuring that they won’t be sued so that they can remain financially
solvent.
JTA also reported that Marci Hamilton, a
professor at Yeshiva University’s Cardozo School of Law and an
organizer of SOL Reform said, “They are most interested in keeping the
civil lawsuits from happening because that is where all of the secrets
and cover-ups come out. It is about image and power.”
She added that criminal cases focus narrowly on the perpetrator’s actions rather than institutions that may have protected him.
“Only through a civil case can you
document an institution’s negligence and the way it failed children. The
problem is that they won’t fix their internal procedures unless there
are civil claims, because they don’t have to,” Hamilton said.
Speaking to Newsweek magazine for a
recent article on the subject of child sexual abuse in the Orthodox
community, Rabbi Shafran said “I think there is little doubt that the
extent and seriousness of abuse in society at large was underappreciated
for decades until relatively recently Unfortunately, the Orthodox
community was likewise unaware of the degree and severity of the problem
in its own midst. That, though, has changed.”
Rabbi Shafran has been at the center of
controversy on this issue for a number of years as several years ago, a
public outcry was heard over an article on child sexual abuse that he
had penned in 2012.
According to a response to the article
which ostensibly attacked other writers who charged the Orthodox
community with intentionally covering up child sex abuse cases, Rabbi
Eidensohn on the Daas Torah blog wrote:
“In his article, Rabbi Shafran seems to
feel that there is a conspiracy to assert that child abuse is a more
serious problem in the Orthodox community than in the rest of the world.
In particular he focuses on two writers who have dealt with the topic
of abuse in the Orthodox community - Robert Kolker of NY Magazine and
Hella Winston of the Jewish Week.
Furthermore he claims that it can't be
because of the positive Torah values and fear of G-d. That is a defense
which can be rejected by anyone who has followed cases such as
Mondrowitz or Weingarten. These cases weren't exceptions but
unfortunately follow a fairly common patter of denial and cover ups.”
Catholic schools have also piped up in
terms of stating their opposition to the reformation of the statute of
limitations. Speaking to the New York Daily News, Dennis Poust, a
spokesman for the New York State Conference of Catholic Bishops said,
“We still oppose the concept of a retroactive window for old abuse cases
because of the difficulty in defending such old cases.”
He add that the “statute of limitations
exist in the law to try to protect due process and serve justice. Over
time, witnesses die, evidence is lost and memories fade. He said that
they support a rival bill in New York that would raise the current age
of statute of limitations by five years, to 28 years old.
This Shomrim putz got off cheap. He's lucky the cops never experienced the smorg at the convention
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