126 Ways to Be Extraordinary
Doing something amazing isn’t an accident.
Being extraordinary doesn’t just happen. Doing something
amazing isn’t an accident. Living an extraordinary life doesn’t come
naturally.
What comes naturally is to just be ordinary.
And that is how most of us stay. Ordinary. Average. Mediocre. Active yet ineffective. Moving… but not toward our dreams.
Being ordinary is a bad plan. Pursuing the path of least resistance
means high-grade mediocrity and close-but-not-quite-there results.
Mediocrity is an effecting (and frustrating) villain. It is neither
crashing defeat nor breathtaking failure. But a slow, soul-sucking
poison. A silent assassin.
One minute you’re standing on top of the world. The next you’re at
the bottom of the heap, scratching your head and wondering what
happened. You’ve completely lost your mojo. And you’re not even sure how
you got to this awful place called mediocrity. And more than anything
else, you want your mojo back. You want that confidence, that feeling of
control, that ability to perform at high levels.
You want to do more, be more.
There is a word for that. A word to describe something that transcends mediocrity. A word that communicates “more than average.”
Extra-ordinary.
Not ordinary. Something extra.
But how does extraordinary happen?
Extraordinary starts with you—perhaps an ordinary person at an
ordinary job doing ordinary things on an ordinary day. No special
advantages. No remarkable skills that can’t be duplicated. No large bank
account. Just all-around
“ordinary.”
Then, you decide to do something extra. To be something extra.
Something a lot-a-bit extra. And not just one time. But day after day
after day.
And then one day, everyone watching you will notice that “ordinary”
is no longer an accurate description for the person you have become.
For what you have done. And they will shake their heads and remark that
what they have seen is extraordinary. Because it was. And because you
will be. And that’s how extraordinary happens.
By not being satisfied with ordinary. By being vigilant. Being obsessed. No excuses. Just a relentless focus on being better.
It’s deciding to go the extra mile when the last mile was hard
enough. It’s controlling your mind in spite of the obstacles ahead.
It comes down to this really simple thought: If you don’t make time
to pursue being extraordinary, then you’ll never experience true
greatness. All you’ll ever know is mediocrity.
You’re already making time to be average and ordinary.
Why not choose to be extraordinary?
1. Open the door for a stranger.
2. Say, “Thank you.”
4. Stop whining.
6. Be kind.
8. Lead someone.
10. Choose a side.
11. Pay more for quality.
13. Let past mistakes go.
15. Be more efficient with your time.
16. Stop playing politics.
18. Be an expert.
19. Stop defending yourself.
20. Decide to take action today.
23. Go to bed tired.
24. Ask what you can do better.
25. Give a stranger flowers.
26. Hold the elevator door.
27. Compliment a great idea.
28. Work on being patient.
29. Create what’s missing.
31. Practice getting back up.
32. Shake hands while looking the other person in the eye.
33. Assume the best in others.
35. Listen to your critic.
37. Donate time to charity.
38. Teach what you’ve learned.
39. Give an opinion when it’s hard.
40. Care about others.
41. Pay attention to the details.
42. Be a friend.
43. Do physical labor.
45. Share more.
48. Get up an hour earlier.
50. Apologize more.
52. Put yourself in tough places.
53. Cry when you are hurt.
55. Don’t stop until you finish.
56. Be passionate about others.
58. Appreciate differences.
59. Be less selfish.
60. Ease someone else’s pain.
63. Care enough to cry.
64. Make a call because “you’re thinking about them.”
67. Practice being vulnerable.
69. Ask more questions.
72. Think for yourself.
73. Put in more effort.
75. Tell the truth.
77. Decide not to get angry.
78. Explore new ideas.
79. Be more effective with your talents.
82. Make a list of tasks to get done.
83. Live with honor.
85. Avoid the crowd.
86. Stop being passive aggressive.
87. Find answers to your questions.
88. Be accountable.
90. Replace “No” with “No thanks.”
91. Let someone else get the attention.
92. Listen with your eyes.
93. Say what’s on your mind.
95. Shake off the straws before they break your back.
96. Offer encouragement.
98. Don’t do anything halfway.
99. Do good things for the right reasons.
100. Get help for your head.
101. Demand brutal analysis of your actions.
102. Put in the effort you expect of others.
103. Share a good example.
104. Offer to buy dinner or dessert.
106. Make a big deal of small wins.
107. Let life happen around you.
108. Have a big vision for those around you.
109. Enjoy others’ success.
110. Inspire others quietly.
112. Welcome diverse perspectives.
113. Don’t go to bed angry.
114. Anticipate the success of others.
116. Ask others to “pay it forward.”
117. Write a kind note.
118. Offer to help for free.
120. Overlook immaturity.
121. Care less about being right.
122. Schedule time to invest in others.
123. Give away your best idea.
124. Stop being offended so easily.
126. Decide that caring is more important than winning.
Have you heard of the Baltimore “rabbi” Moshe Eisemann? Google his innumerable sex offenses! Baltimore is such a corrupt city, its officials literally bow down to Ner Israel (where Eisemann lives), so Moshe Eisemann never faced any judgment whatsoever. Following his exposé over a decade ago, his life has been more than peaceful: On June 19, 2018, he married off one of his many granddaughters Leah Gittel Schor to Avi Jaffee. When part of the family sat together after the wedding, Yair Friedman, who is married to one of Moshe Eisemann’s granddaughters (he is also a son of the notorious Ner Israel campus keeper David Friedman), filmed a short video of the family bliss: Moshe Eisemann’s little grandson was asked in front of his “Opa” (grandfather – in German – Moshe Eisemann): “You want to show Opa your bellybutton?” (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLLMNOj1X6I) Moshe Eisemann had sex with Ner Israel young male students, had sex with his teenage Russian concubines living in his apartment, and he allegedly had sex even with his own children! Now his grandson is asked not to quote the Torah he learns, but to sport a little exhibitionist and expose his navel! And nobody in the family protests – they know what “Opa” really likes, and “Opa” likes “navel like a round goblet” of the Song of Solomon 7!!!
ReplyDeleteRabbi Chaim Kanievsky: “All who support Shas Yiden will be saved from chevlei (the travails of) Moshiach – spiritually and materially.”
ReplyDeleteTwo things I do not get – what is the exact source for RCK’s promise (which seems to be an extremely liberal reading of Sanhedrin 98b) and why does the website of these holy men Shasyiden.com has the .COM (commercial) extension? תורה איז די בעסטע סחורה – Torah is the best business?