RCA HAD THIS UP ON THEIR SITE --- UNTIL I EXPOSED THEM AND SCHACHTER AS FRAUDS:
"a. Where the Conversion is Primarily for the sake of Marriage
i. Where marriage to a particular Jewish partner is a major incentive to
a prospective conversion, there is an increased possibility that the
geirus may come with less than the complete commitment necessary for a
conversion that would be in keeping with the standards we are trying to
set for the regional Batei Din. Nonetheless, experience also shows that
such a motivation can result in converts of the highest caliber.
Conversion for the sake of marriage therefore requires the Beit Din to
constantly reevaluate if the candidate and future partner are likely to
subscribe to the requisite beliefs and practices. The Beit Din must be convinced that if the potential spouse were to disappear from the candidate’s life, his or her commitment to the Jewish faith and people would not waver. These factors inevitably prolong the process and make examination of the prospective convert more intense.
Indeed, should the couple mention a proposed wedding date as a deadline
or goal, the Beit Din should respond that the process will take
significantly longer than that......"
c. Requirements of Other People in a Candidate’s Life
i. When a candidate is previously intermarried or is converting for the sake of an individual Jew (as per above), the spouse’s observance level and attitudes must
be consistent with the present and future Torah observance of the
candidate and not be a source of conflict or opposition to the convert’s
adopting a halachic lifestyle. The Beit Din should also consider
whether other significant individuals in the candidate’s life such as
parents, or any existing minor children, will have an impact on the
success or failure of the process and the aftermath of conversion.
